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Why Do Woman Choose Married Men Only?
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There are a variety of complex psychological and emotional reasons why some single women knowingly choose to pursue relationships with married men, even though this behavior is generally considered unethical:
- Low self-esteem and need for validation. Women struggling with insecurity may seek a sense of worth from being desired by an "unattainable" married man. The illicit nature of the relationship makes them feel special and chosen over the wife.
- Excitement and thrill-seeking. The taboo, secretive aspect of having an affair can provide an adrenaline rush and feelings of excitement. The sneaking around and forbidden element is a turn-on for some.
- Childhood trauma See how the forbidden element is actually coded in their dna. 🧬 if not it’s caused by ptsd. Internal dna and or ptsd which messes with reasonable thoughts condition. Psychologists and behavioral analysts are studying both social connections and scientific connection between traits like Infedelity. [Science](https://study.com/academy/lesson/scientific-explanation-definition-examples.html#:~:text=Science is the study of,of the evidence as possible.) is currently studying inheritance and trauma as possibilities.
- Desire for no-strings-attached sex. Sleeping with a married man means the woman doesn't have to deal with the commitment and demands of a "real" relationship. She can keep things casual and avoid getting too emotionally invested. It’s very selfish. This woman just doesn’t mind hurting other woman’s feelings. Neither here or there just concerned with herself.
- Competitive desire to "win" a married man away from his wife. Seducing a married man and having him stray, even temporarily, makes some women feel superior and feeds their ego. There's a conquest element.
- Daddy issues and fear of intimacy. Women with unresolved trauma related to an absent or unreliable father may subconsciously seek out unavailable men. The married man won't abandon her because he's already committed to someone else.
- Misguided belief they can "save" him from an unhappy marriage. The other woman may convince herself the man is stuck in a miserable relationship and she can offer him real love and happiness. She sees herself as his savior.
However, while these psychological factors may drive the behavior, being the other woman rarely ends well. Most affairs eventually implode, leaving the mistress heartbroken. Her self-esteem often erodes in these toxic arrangements.
Healthy women with high self-worth don't usually settle for being a married man's side piece.
Ps: Counseling can help mistresses explore their motivations and break destructive patterns.
The married man holds the bulk of the responsibility for cheating and lying to his wife.